Jason spent the night at grandma's this evening, so Shawn (and Jack) got lots of extra attention tonight.
Let me just say that Shawn LOVED it. I swear he literally did NOT stop talking for the entire evening.
He talked to me.
He talked to daddy.
And when both of us were occupied in some fashion, he talked to Jack or even himself!
It was really fun to see how animated he became. (That isn't to say that Shawn isn't pretty darn amazing while Jason is here, but the behavior is different when Shawn shares the spotlight with his brother.) I guess I hadn't really realized just
how much the personality of one affected the other, especially in relation to Jason being the more dominant of the two while Shawn is more passive.
Shawn did ask about Jason a number of times, wanting to know when he'd come home. He even told me that Jason was supposed to come home
now, which I'm pretty sure he really meant. I do think he enjoyed his evening, though.
Fostering the relationship of the pair while giving each the ability to shine in his own way AND on his own has been a unique challenge. Now that I've seen Shawn's reaction tonight, I'm more determined to give them opportunities like this in the future.
This whole twin business is fascinating to me!